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Subtle Abuse 101: How to Spot an Abuser

How do you know if you are in an abusive relationship?

Have you lost your confidence?

Is your partner’s behavior confusing you?

Do you need help identifying red flags in a relationship?

About Subtle Abuse 101

Abusers are not obvious. If they were, you probably wouldn’t engage in the first place! And yet, nearly half of Americans have experienced psychological abuse by a partner. So, how do you know what to look out for early on so that you don’t end up in a harmful dynamic? How can you tell if what you are experiencing in your relationship is psychological abuse if you’ve never been hit or called a name?

In this course, you will:

  • Learn 7 Quick Tips for finding out if you are emotionally abused
  • Discover how an abusive partner plays the victim in order to manipulate you
  • Discuss how a lack of empathy is often the sign of an abuser
  • Identify the ways your partner refuses to take responsibility
  • Learn the early signs of jealousy in a relationship
  • Identify if and when your partner is objectifying you
  • Learn how abusers use humor as a tool to put you down
  • Spot the signs that your partner is controlling you
  • Benchmark what happiness looks like in a relationship

What You'll Receive

When you sign up for Subtle Abuse 101﹣How to Spot an Abuser, you will receive:

  • 8 video lectures, taught by Avery Neal, psychotherapist and leading expert on subtle abuse
  • In-depth notes to walk you through the curriculum
  • 8 journal assignments to reflect and develop inner strength
  • Even better, lifetime access!
  • All this, for only $99.00

What You'll Learn

At the end of this course, you will be able to:

  • Identify if you are being emotionally abused in your relationship
  • Learn to judge your partner based on actions, not words
  • Tap into your own empathy to identify how you feel
  • Define the limits of your responsibility in your relationship
  • Stop questioning yourself when your partner becomes jealous
  • Understand why you feel icky, empty, or uncomfortable in your relationship
  • Evaluate how much control you believe you have in your relationship
  • Understand what happiness looks like in a relationship, to set yourself up for future success

Subtle Abuse 101 Is For You, If:

  • You are dating and want to identify red flags
  • You can’t quite put your finger on what is wrong in your relationship
  • You find yourself constantly apologizing in your relationship
  • You don’t feel like you can fully be yourself or share your feelings with your partner
  • You walk on eggshells around your partner, but you’re not sure why
  • You try to manage your partner’s reactions to things
  • You’ve lost yourself in your relationship
  • Your partner’s behavior confuses you
  • Your relationship is volatile, with high high’s and very low low’s
  • You work harder and harder in your relationship to no avail
  • You have lost your confidence
  • Your relationship makes you feel like you might be going crazy